Sex Bucket List: Naughty, Stimulating Ways to Spend Time Together
You and your partner both live hectic lives–between work, the kids, and family commitments, you can hardly remember the last time you were alone together. Is there anything that can be done?
It’s hard to make time for passion in a relationship, but it’s also essential if you want to feel happy, connected, and satisfied in your relationship. You both need to spend time together alone so you can enjoy each other’s company.
If it’s been a while since the last time you were alone in the bedroom, don’t worry—there’s plenty you can do to rekindle the flame! To learn more, keep reading to find some of the most stimulating to spend time together as a couple.
Share Your Fantasies
If you’re looking for new ways to have adult fun, don’t forget one of the sexiest organs in your body—your mind! Mental foreplay is an amazing way to turn each other on, so why not share your deepest fantasy?
Often, couples might feel a bit awkward talking about sex and desire, so create a safe space where you can both talk openly about things you love, ideas of new things to try, or your sexiest fantasy.
Even if you’ve been with your partner for years, you might be surprised at what you can learn about each other, just by enjoying some sexy chat together! You might find it very arousing as well, encouraging you to try new things in the bedroom.
Play Naughty Truth or Dare
Remember playing truth or dare at summer camp sleepovers? It’s a game all kids know and love, but you can actually take things up a notch with an adult version of truth or dare.
Come up with your own sex ideas as the dares and you’re sure to have plenty of fun together! However, the truth questions can be fun too, as you might learn someone new about one another.
There are plenty of other fun games to play in the bedroom too. For one, look for ‘sex dice’, which lets you decide what happens next based on the roll of the dice.
You can find plenty of other fun accessories for the bedroom, such as handcuffs, flavored condoms and lubricant, or edible massage cream.
Try Out Toys
For something truly mind-blowing, have you thought about incorporating sex toys into your relationship? Many people find them intimidating, but the truth is that the adult toy industry is nothing like it used to be.
You can find plenty of discreet, high-quality toys that are built for couples to enjoy together.
If you’re unsure of how to have an orgasm, you might find that a toy can get you over the edge! Many people find the touch and vibrations from sex toys can be very effective when it comes to climaxing.
There are lots of online shops where you can buy just about any type of sexy toy or accessories, offering you the privacy of shopping in your own home.
Play Sexy Games—Outside of the Bedroom
We think of the bedroom as the place to be for sex—but why not mix it up? Sometimes, adding some variety into our life can provide a huge boost to our sex life.
If you’re feeling spontaneous, why not get frisky in the kitchen, living room, garage, or even outside? As long as you have privacy and know that the kids aren’t going to walk in, there’s no need to limit yourself to the bedroom.
Or, if you’re in need of a break, a sexy weekend away at a hotel can provide the spice you need to rekindle your passion for one another.
When was the last time you both got dressed up? Often, we get home from work and head straight into our sweatpants for a relaxing night in front of the couch.
However, even if you can’t go out, why not plan a date night at home? You can both make an effort to dress up and order cuisine from your favorite restaurant.
It can be a romantic and fun way to spend quality time together. Of course, you can also wear something sexy underneath your outfit for your partner to discover later!
Send Each Other Sexy Snaps
If you’re apart from each other all day, one way to guarantee passion when you’re back together is by sending a few sexy selfies throughout the day.
Once you learn how to work your best angles, you’re sure to drive each other wild with an exciting text. You can add a bit of sexy talk as well, letting them know how you can’t wait to see them later tonight.
Anticipation can be really sexy, so a bit of foreplay via text message can be an erotic way to jumpstart your evening.
Spend Time Together With These Sexy Ideas
If your relationship has fallen flat, why not try out some of the sexy ideas above? You can spend time together and try something new in (or out!) of the bedroom, providing the spark you need to kickstart your relationship to its former glory.
Of course, it’s always a good idea to talk about these things first, thinking about what you’d both like to try and what’s off-limits. Good communication is always going to result in better sex, so spending time connecting is sure to improve your relationship!
Get started today with a bit of flirtation or a sexy wink—who knows what might happen next?
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